In a relationship, married or not… You should read this.

nathanpersuasion:

Marriage.

“When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?  

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‎”If things aren’t going right, go left. But if there is nothing left, where do we go?”

nathanpersuasion:

“You keep moving forward no matter what, even if it has it’s ups and downs or curvy roads. You live your life. Never stop because there are obstacles, you are born into the world not knowing what’s going on and you learn and when you don’t know what’s going on.. You just keep learning.

Yeah, I thought alot about this quote. Alot of people don’t know what to do. Some just stay, waiting for something to happen, when really.. You need to make something happen. You live your life. You make your life.”

Have you ever wondered…

nathanpersuasion:

When you post something… that someone is reading what you wrote and you somehow changed that persons view/life?
“You live your life and thus you make your life. You can make bad decisions or you can make good ones, it’s all up to you. You are your lifes meaning. You sculpt your life to the way you want it, whether it’s the way you wanted it to go or not.”

Life views

Many people question the meaning of life, or just wonder why are we alive. I’ve always heard “there is a meaning for everything” but I also hear “there is no meaning to life”. People think different and have their own views and opinions, so I was wondering, what are your views on life? Why do you think we are here?

My views.

Like I said up there, “People think different and have their own views and opinions” and “everything has a reason and meaning”. Some people think we are here to just “help contribute to society” and others think “life has no meaning”.

I don’t know the real answer to this but here is what I think.

Remember, this is my view and my opinion.
The meaning of life is what you make of it. You can either be someone who “helps to contribute to society” or you can be that person who “has no meaning in life”. You are the definition of life. You live your life and thus you make your life. You can make bad decisions or you can make good ones, it’s all up to you. You are your lifes meaning. You sculpt your life to the way you want it, whether it’s the way you wanted it to go or not, you are the meaning to that life long question.

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In a relationship, married or not… You should read this.

nathanpersuasion:

Marriage.

“When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?  

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Life changing words

  • Friend:" you look mind f*cked, What's Wrong?"
  • Me:"What do you mean?"
  • Friend:" You aren't yourself anymore, someone broke you down and they didn't build you back up... * long silence* sorry bro... I know how you feel, I always ask myself, ' Why does it take along time to build something up, but to tear it down, it's so easy. ' and you know what I say?"
  • Me:" what."
  • Friend:" people in this world are weak, and only the strong know what real love is, and real love is not trying to tear that relationship down, but to build it up higher, and it takes patience to do that.. and that sir, is what you have. "
  • Me:" I really wish I could believe that "
  • Friend:" Well, you can do two things, ONE... you can do what every girl has done to you, and hurt only more people and maybe even yourself... Or TWO you can choose to live the life of love and live a happy life just by being able to love others, and that's how I know you, I only known you for a few months, but I've seen you, your not like most people. As a friend, I ask you to do one thing, even though I know in a few years, we wont know each other anymore.. I want you to promise yourself that you will always be who you are, not like the other guys and not like me, but yourself, because if you do that, you will find your true love somewhere, maybe not now or maybe this year, but later in life. "
“Life never came with directions on how to live it, but we make our own paths. Life was never really given a meaning, but you can become a dictionary on how your life is defined.”
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“When you’re young, all you ever wanted to do was grow up, but when you grew up, all you want to do was be young again. Now, when you say you want to die, just think about it… It might seem better, but it really isn’t. In your last final moments in life, all you’ll wish for was to live once again.”
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Everyday.

I’m tired

Not physically tired or like sleepy tired, I’m just tired of people coming into my life, making me think that they are special and won’t leave or screw me over, but hey… They always prove me wrong…
“You have one chance at living. Live it to the fullest right? Fuck all the things that are happening and try to accomplish what you want to do. Strive to make your life better and strive to live happy. Being sad or mad or anything else is a mindset. You can let yourself be sad. You can let yourself be happy. It’s all in our heads! It’s not easy to understand and I get that but just because something in life isn’t going the way you want it doesn’t mean it isn’t worth living. Life never came with a manual. You can never choose a life, but you can choose how to live it. You can change so much. You have so much potential.”
— Nathanpersuasion (via nathanpersuasion)

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